I saw this in a description of what a woman is looking for in a guy on a dating site...
I want somebody with a little thug in him.
Want to make me seethe? Ask me to be this way.
And then watch me walk out the door.
When you look at me, you will not find a thug.
You will find a caring, passionate, compassionate, loving man.
If that's not what you want, I can't help you.